build: do not pass vendored headers when building against shared libs

[aduh95]

And setup test-shared.yml so we can detect regressions.

This helps detect implicit dependency, and force them to be explicit (hence the changes in binding.gyp files); it can also help detect issues in upstream pkg-configuration (hence the patches I sent to LIEF, uvwasi, and BoringSSL).

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/actions
• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/performance
• @nodejs/sqlite

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 90.49%. Comparing base (e463b48) to head (1840192).
⚠️ Report is 9 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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[github-actions]

Platform	Number of requisites	Proportion of new derivations
x86_64-linux	510 -> 513 => +3	6 / 513 = 1.1%
aarch64-linux	511 -> 514 => +3	6 / 514 = 1.1%
x86_64-darwin	443 -> 444 => +1	3 / 444 = 0.6%
aarch64-darwin	454 -> 457 => +3	6 / 457 = 1.3%
Total	1918 -> 1928 => +10	21 / 1928 = 1.0%

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